You're the emotionally responsible eldest daughter type.
AKA: the unpaid therapist, logistics queen, and secretly a little woo woo.Â
Your nervous system's whispering.
Your Soul's ready to listen.
Your burnout isnât a flawâitâs a message. You donât need another checklist. You need a moment. A breath. A full-body exhale.This is your gentle reset.
The one that says, âHey babe, you already know. Youâve always known.â Letâs get you back to yourselfâSoftly. Slowly. Sacredly.
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Youâre the one who holds it all together. The spreadsheet maker. The midnight googler.
The emotional first responder when everyone else falls apart.
Iâm Karenâand Iâm here to help you stop spiraling, start softening, and feel steady again in a life that actually fits you.
No hustle. No shame. No need to fake it âtil you make it.
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Youâve journaled. Youâve meal prepped. Youâve tried âjust going to bed earlier.â
Still tired? Same.
This isnât about fixing yourself.
Itâs about finally tuning into what your bodyâs been whispering for yearsâand actually listening.
Soft structure. Sacred rhythms. A nervous system that isnât screaming at you.
Letâs do things differently.
FOR MY GIRLS WHO'VE Â LITERALLY TRIED EVERYTHING



Meet the founder
"If you've ever locked yourself in a bathroom stall at work for a crying break, girl, I got you."
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HI, IâM KAREN LORENA.
BOARD-CERTIFIED NURSE PRACTITIONER TURNED NERVOUS SYSTEM SOFT GIRL.
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Oldest daughter. Emotionally responsible friend. Recovering perfectionist. I once cried in a supply closet at 3 a.m. during an ER shiftâthen walked back out like nothing happened. (Would not recommend.)
Now I help women stop white-knuckling their way through life and start actually feeling like themselves againâclearer, calmer, and way more connected to their own inner knowing.
Still softening. Still healing.
But no longer spiraling in silence.
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âSomehow, Karen Lorena made space for both my chaos and my healingâand I trusted Karen Lorena completely.â
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âKaren Lorena held space for me to hear my own voice again.â
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âKaren Lorena helped me move through fear and find my confidence.â
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âKaren Lorena helped me learn that self-care isnât a choreâitâs something I deserve.â
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âKarenâs warmth and wisdom helped me move forward with grace.â
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âKaren showed me Iâm worthyâand I finally believe it.â
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FAQs
Q: Â IâM TOTALLY BURNT OUT. WILL I EVEN HAVE THE ENERGY FOR THIS?
Q: Â WHATâS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE DASHBOARD AND THE GROUP?
Q: Â WHAT IF IâM NOT SURE WHAT I NEED YET?
Q: Â DO I NEED TO HAVE A DIAGNOSED CONDITION OR BE âREALLY STRUGGLINGâ TO JOIN?
Q: Â IS THIS ALL SUPER WOO-WOO?
Q: Â ARE YOU MY MEDICAL PROVIDER NOW?
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