You're the emotionally responsible eldest daughter type.


AKA: the unpaid therapist, logistics queen, and secretly a little woo woo. 

Your nervous system's whispering.

Your Soul's ready to listen.

Your burnout isn’t a flaw—it’s a message. You don’t need another checklist. You need a moment. A breath. A full-body exhale.This is your gentle reset.
The one that says, “Hey babe, you already know. You’ve always known.” Let’s get you back to yourself—Softly. Slowly. Sacredly.

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You’re the one who holds it all together. The spreadsheet maker. The midnight googler.
The emotional first responder when everyone else falls apart.
I’m Karen—and I’m here to help you stop spiraling, start softening, and feel steady again in a life that actually fits you.
No hustle. No shame. No need to fake it ‘til you make it.

Let's work together

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The Calm Girl's 5 Minute Audio Reset

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You’ve journaled. You’ve meal prepped. You’ve tried “just going to bed earlier.”
Still tired? Same.
This isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about finally tuning into what your body’s been whispering for years—and actually listening.
Soft structure. Sacred rhythms. A nervous system that isn’t screaming at you.
Let’s do things differently.

FOR MY GIRLS WHO'VE  LITERALLY TRIED EVERYTHING

LET'S DO THIS TOGETHER
Meet the founder

"If you've ever locked yourself in a bathroom stall at work for a crying break, girl, I got you."

 

HI, I’M KAREN LORENA.
BOARD-CERTIFIED NURSE PRACTITIONER TURNED NERVOUS SYSTEM SOFT GIRL.

 

Oldest daughter. Emotionally responsible friend. Recovering perfectionist. I once cried in a supply closet at 3 a.m. during an ER shift—then walked back out like nothing happened. (Would not recommend.)
Now I help women stop white-knuckling their way through life and start actually feeling like themselves again—clearer, calmer, and way more connected to their own inner knowing.
Still softening. Still healing.
But no longer spiraling in silence.

 

 

 

 

 

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Calm Girl's Freebie 5 min Audio Reset

  Your nervous system called. It wants five minutes of peace. A free audio reset for the emotionally responsible ones who hold it all together—and are finally ready to hold themselves, too.This quick, cozy, come-home-to-yourself audio is here to help.   ☀5 minutes. ☀ One deep breath at a time. ☀ No performance. No fixing. Just space to feel like you again.   It’s your soft return to calm—for the days when your brain won’t shut up, your chest is tight, and your to-do list forgot you’re human. 

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